Competitive runner and FBI agent Heath White describes how he and his wife struggled with a prenatal diagnosis of Down syndrome and then how his life changed after Paisley was born. They have run a symbolic 321 miles together, and Heath says, “I’m always gonna be there to make sure she gets to the finish line.”
Like Heath, I remember being afraid of someone teasing my son and being worried about raising him for the rest of my life. Then I remember coming to the realization, like Heath, that my son was becoming so independent I might not get to raise him for the rest of my life. Let us know, how much of their experience sounds familiar to you? What’s different about your story? Please also share any other stories or blogs you like about dads.
Another video from a father:
Expectant parents, this video treasure has been shared throughout the on-line Down syndrome community. A father speaks from the heart about those early feelings connected with hearing the news, and the progression of perspective, feelings, and knowledge. It takes only a few moments, but we think it will help you see a glimpse of the future:
(Please note that in the video the stat on divorce seems to be inadvertantly misquoted. Research does show that couples with a child with Down syndrome divorce at a lower rate than couples with typical children, but not as low as noted in the video.)
Also, did you know there is an organization devoted entirely to the dads of children with Down syndrome? Take a look at Dads Appreciating Down Syndrome for more information.